Life and happiness

Whats the point? WE live our entire lives working day and night to get what we want. To be where we want to be. To accomplish our dreams. but for what? once we die what did we accomplish? What do we get? Nothing. Can we take any of that with us? No. It goes to someone who didnt work for it. Someone who probably doesnt deserve it. so basically we are working our butts off to help someone else. So whats the point of life? Whats the meaning of it? What are we supposed to do with it? I believe personnally that i have figured it out. The meaning of life, the reason we are on this earth, it all comes down to one thing. Love. nobody remembers you for what you did. Nobody really cares what you did in your life. nobody really cares who you was as a person. Everyone forgets it. We are to find someone we love. Make them happy. And do all we can for them. It doesnt matter who it is, whether it is your God or your spouse. Or even a friend. You dont live life for yourself. You live life for someone else. If you have experienced love before then stop for a second and think about it. Have you ever been more happy than those times you laid in that persons arms, or what about the times you two just sat in total silence? You spend your whole life trying to make money and go places, and yeah that may make you happy at the time. but do you honestly remember that forever? 50 years from now what are you going to remember the best, those times you spent with the person you loved. So look at it. What really matters in life? finding and spending life with that special someone. Making them happy, doing all you can to help them. I lost that. I ruined that chance. and trust me it kills me. Not a day goes by that i dont think of her. Im not as happy anymore, because all i can think about was the times her and i shared. So if your reading this and your in love with someone, have them read it and talk about it. If someone would have told me all this maybe things would have been different. I didnt believe the old saying "you never know what you have until its gone". I thought it was just some stupid wise saying that poeple like to say to make themselves seem smart. But let me tell you this, that statement has never been more true for me. And it will be true to you to if you dont heed this warning. Whatever arguements you and your loved one gets in they can be worked out. All you have to do is sit down and talk to them and be open and honest. Dont hide things and dont hold anything back.Dont try to hurt them just because your angry or upset. its not worth the pain you will experience when you loose them. Relationships are supposed to be fun, relaxing. I will talk more about relationships later. Until then, talk to your loved one, work out any and all problems, make them happy, spend a little time jsut holding each other in silence, you will be suprised hwo much good those times will make. dont make my mistake. Dont loose the only person who will love you for who you are. Dont loose the happiness that you can give that person and that that person can give you. Dont spend the rest of your life regretting the fact that YOU messed up with that person. Thats what i feel now and let me tell you...it sucks. Spend some time with your loved one tonight and watch what happens. You might be amazed.

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